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Personal Finances — Update

It’s been a while since I wrote about my finances. Since Midlife Beginnings was originally a personal finance blog, and since I have found in the past that writing about my finances helps me to quantify them and keep them under control, I will spend some time writing about my current status.

A couple years ago I was more disciplined about my monthly blogging, but less disciplined about my finances. I had about $40,000 in credit card debt, a $25,000 retirement loan, and was making roughly $75,000 per year, with a $15,000 bonus on top of that.

Then, I figured out how to make money selling books on Amazon and raised my net income (after taxes) by another $3,000 per month. This gave me what I needed to pay my credit cards off quickly and, in less than 6 months, I was debt free except for $5,000 which I had on a 0% Interest for life account.

Over the past few months, that all changed, though it was for a good cause. I have purchased a condominium. Now I have about $450k in mortgage debt, as well as a $30k loan against my retirement plan which helped with the down payment. I have also put about $12k on my credit card for furniture and other things which my new condo needed. I also burned through most of my savings to pay closing costs, etc.

In other words, finances are tight again. Instead of being $65k in debt, I am now about half a million in debt. But have a condo, it’s furnished, and I have everything I need to survive. I’m still making $80k from my day job (though the bonus has been tiny for the past couple of years), and I’m still pulling in $3-5k per month from my Amazon business. I had always thought of my Amazon business as somewhat unreliable, but the truth is, I’ve averaged 3-5k every month for the past 2 years, so I guess I can count on it, at least for the next few months. I’m working like a dog, but expect that in another 8-12 months I will have paid off all of my non-mortgage-related debt and will have started rebuilding my savings cushion.

Buying your first piece of real estate will really change your finances, and not always for the better. All of my friends who have bought real estate complained about having no money to do things for the first couple of years. Now I know exactly what they meant. I’m even watching my grocery bill these days, the one place where I never economized in the past. But there is a satisfaction that comes from owning your own home. Sure, I know that I can’t count on the value of my condo going up for a few years, but I can handle the monthly payments. It’s big enough, quiet, solidly built, comfortable, and I like the neighborhood. I don’t intend to go anywhere for a while.

Over the next few days I’ll write about some of the ways I’m finding to cut my spending. I’m also trying to drum up some ideas for expanding my Amazon business, like selling other items and selling on other venues.

Back Again

It’s been six months since I last wrote a post on this blog. How time flies…..

A lot has happened since then. The main thing is, I have bought a condominium! I’m a bit nervous about the housing market, but I found the perfect condo and decided to buy. It’s a two-bedroom / two-bath, brand new construction, huge windows, on the fifth floor.

After living in a 120-year-old brownstone for 23 years, I can’t get over how much I appreciate some of the smaller luxuries of a new building — a washer/dryer, a garbage chute by the elevator, a parking space for my Vespa, and a dishwasher….where else but in New York City does anyone consider a dishwasher or a parking space to be an unusual luxury?

And best of all, I have a decent view. Instead of living in an old brownstone, I look out over brownstones — hundreds of them!

I’m now living in Bedford Stuyvesant, just over the border from Clinton Hill. It’s a big change from my old neighborhood, Carroll Gardens, which went from being mostly Italian American twenty years ago to being pretty much exclusively ultra-rich in the genre of Greenwich, CT or the Hamptons out on Long Island. For those who don’t know Brooklyn, Bedford Stuyvesant is predominantly African American and, though absolutely beautiful with its Victorian brownstones, has a reputation for being a bit rough. But after a couple months of living here, I have found it to be perfectly safe — haven’t had any issues whatsoever. I’m enjoying the West African and Jamaican restaurants around here, as well as the vibe on the street, which is so different from my old neighborhood.

The process of moving has been difficult though. After 23 years of living in one place, I had accumulated a LOT of stuff, and have spent pretty much the past 4 months getting rid of stuff. moving stuff, and rearranging stuff. This weekend I have finally finished. The new apartment feels like home.

I tend to get into financial details in this blog, and will probably go into detail about my condo transaction in a later post. For now though, I’ll say that what convinced me that buying was the right decision was this: My landlord wanted to raise my rent to $2,300, which is more than I wanted to pay. I could find no comparable two-bedrooms in my old neighborhood (or just about anywhere in Brooklyn or Manhattan, for that matter) for under $2,500.

My monthly payment now is $2,800 (this includes mortgage, maintenance, taxes and insurance), but after tax deductions my monthly payment comes out to just over $2,200, which is cheaper than what it would have cost to rent. I took out a 30-year fixed mortgage — none of that interest only or adjustable rate business — so I know that I won’t be paying more in the future. The next several years may be rough for the economy, but eventually better times will come and housing prices will rise. When that happens, my monthly mortgage payment will still be $2,800.

Now that my move is complete, I plan to start blogging more. Writing is a way that I use to work through my thoughts, and I’ve missed it, as well as the feedback that I received here.

To Buy or to Rent?

I am taking a four-day weekend off from work, and swore that I wouldn’t touch a computer for the entire time. I managed to hold out for three days, but today couldn’t resist catching up on my favorite blogs, on the news and on the financial markets. It’s been pouring outside all morning, I’m drinking a pot of tea, my cat is curled up on the desk beside me, and I’m not about to leave the apartment. In fact, this is a perfect time to do some writing.

It’s been a while since I’ve posted. A lot has been going on. I wrote a few weeks ago that I will need to move before the end of March (lease is ending). I’ve been out looking at apartments and have been amazed at how much cheaper they are than they were a year or two ago. An article in the NY Times this morning states that NY rents are 25% off of their 2006 peak, and have fallen back to where they were in 2000. It’s a good time to be looking for a rental!

But instead, I’m on the verge of buying an apartment. I’ve paid off my debt, and feel secure in my job for the next year or so. I also have been doing well with my side business. While I have loved living in my rental apartment with a big garden for these past 23 years, I am acutely aware that I could have paid down the majority of a 30-year mortgage in this time. Also, I am not getting any younger, and don’t want to be renting when I’m 60.

The place I am looking at is a two-bedroom condo in a brand new building with floor to ceiling windows, and a balcony. I’ve made an offer on it and am working out a few kinks in the contract with my attorney before signing.

There are drawbacks to buying though, and I am nervous. First, I will have to take most of the down payment out of my 401k. I understand how the stock market works, and am pretty good at moving in and out at opportune times. I sold in early 2008, and was in a cash equivalent account for most of that awful period when so many retirement accounts were getting decimated. (if only there were an inverse (short) fund offered in my 401k program.) I moved my 401k funds back into small caps and emerging markets funds a few days after the low in March 2009, and have done very well over the past year. By tying $40,000 up in a down payment, I won’t be able to work that money in the markets anymore. Not to mention the fact that I will have to pay taxes plus a 10% penalty on it.

Then there is the problem of a falling real estate market. NY condo prices have come down a good 25% in the past couple years, but with the government about to end its support of the mortgage markets, and with all those Alt-A and Option Arm resets about to hit who is to say that prices won’t come down another 25%? If that happens I’ll be under water on my mortgage by about $100k. On the other hand, I have never seen so much angst in New York City in my life. Angst about real estate prices, about the job market, about the financial industry; people are nervous. If there is one thing I’ve learned, it’s that one should buy when everyone else is afraid to (and sell when everyone else thinks you’re a fool not to buy).

Lastly, I see myself staying in the city for at least another five years. And when I leave, I would most likely want to rent out my condo, keeping a foothold in Brooklyn regardless of where I end up. Of course, with those plummeting rents, I don’t think I’d even be able to cover 3/4 of my monthly mortgage and maintenance…..

So, in another day or two, the contract will be ready to sign. What do I do — take a big risk, bite the bullet, buy a new condominium and become a middle-aged home-owner worried about my housing equity? Or do I put off my decision, sign another 2-year rental lease, and buy once the mortgage reset mess is behind us in 2012?

Happy New Year!

To honor the holiday, I have finally settled on a new design for my blog.  I spent a lot of time Googling for Wordpress templates, and after several hours exploring and experimenting yesterday, I gave up and selected an old template.

Well, today I was checking the website of a holistic doctor who specializes in diet that a friend told me about, and realized that his blog had just the minimalistic yet friendly look that I have been searching for.  It looks good, yet doesn’t get in the way.  And best of all, the template is free!  Thanks to Sadish Bala for putting this theme out onto the blogosphere.

If you are looking for a theme for your blog, take some time to look at other blogs and see if there is one with an appearance you like.  Quite often a blogger will download a free theme from the Internet for their blog.  If this is the case, there will usually be a link at the bottom of the blog saying something like “Free Wordpress Theme,” or “Minimalist by Sadish.”  Click the link to learn more about the theme and whether it costs anything.

Of course with this theme I will still need to do some customization. The picture of the train has to go, and the next time I have a day off I’ll start that project. But the theme is pretty close to  what I’m looking for….finally.

And this reveals a truism: instead of spending a lot of time (like I did yesterday) searching for a specific look, or a specific something, it’s often  more effective to spend some time thinking about what I want and then remaining open for it while I go about my business.  What I want will often materialize shortly with little effort on my part.  This is true for little things like blog designs, and with bigger things like money and love.

Time Sinks

A new design for a new year.

I’ve managed to fritter the entire morning away searching for a minimalist, two-column Wordpress template, with no success whatsoever.  Why is there so much crap out there and so few good looking designs?  All I want is something with a bar across the top, a column in the middle for the text and a sidebar on the right for a few widgets, but  I just can’t find anything that looks good.

For now, I’ve pulled up an old template that I used a couple years ago. I had planned to customize it a bit but am having some issues, so don’t be surprised if the format of the blog changes again sometime this weekend.  If I ever find a template that I like, that is.

I’ve been giving some thought to what I want to do with my blog over the past few days, where I want it to go.   At times I always had in the back of my mind that I would spend time building up a readership, and ultimately generate some income.  But given my workload — a full time job and a thriving home business — that just isn’t going to happen.  To be honest, letting go of that idea is very freeing. All those Adsense widgets touting midlife erectile dysfunction cures kind of took me away from writing about what really concerns me.

Also, my financial situation has changed.  I started this blog as a way to become honest with myself and with money.  I have recently paid off the last of my debt, and I don’t care much for writing about finances any more.  I never really did, to be honest, but putting my feelings into words and putting those words out to the blogosphere was a very helpful exercise.  I had meant to write one last money post today about how I paid off all that debt, but now that  I wasted the whole morning looking for a new blog template, that post will have to wait until tomorrow. Hmm, maybe I should start writing about time management instead?

I think this  blog has been best for me when I’ve used it to work through issues for myself.  I read the standard blogs out there with articles like 6 ways to simplify your life, and I just can’t imagine spending my time churning out stuff like that.  I always have been “different,” and there is no reason why my blog can’t be as well.  It’ll be interesting to see where it takes me…..

A Mellow Christmas

Merry Christmas, all!  December 26, and the year is almost over — hard to believe.  My mom always said that time seemed to go faster as she got older and now I know exactly what she means.

Christmas was good.  For the first year in the 20 years that I’ve been with M., we didn’t go to my parents house.  My mother becomes excessively sentimental around Christmas, and our dinners inevitably degenerate into teary reminiscences about past Christmases at her parents’ house.  Somehow her memories are always of these wonderful,  perfect get-togethers where everyone was so happy, and she uses them to highlight how awful Christmases are for her today. My memories of Christmases at her house are of vicious arguments and hurt feelings, and grudges carried from year to year, but I try not to bring that up.

So at any rate, instead of enduring another miserable, emotional Christmas, we cooked and ate all day long.  We thought about going to the Unitarian church in Brooklyn Heights for the morning service, and to Chinatown for dinner, but nothing seemed better than relaxing at home, so that’s exactly what we did.

One of my New Years resolutions is to simplify my life, and another is to not be pulled into doing things that I don’t want to do. More on that soon.  This Christmas  turned out to be a good testing ground for both of those resolutions.  Now I can start working on my diet!

I’m taking the next week off from work, so hope to catch up on my blogging.  It’s been great catching up on my favorite blogs!

It finally happened.  I live in a three-unit brownstone, one apartment on each floor.  I have the main floor,  the basement and the back yard, and pay an absurdly cheap rent.  Now, after 20 years, my landlord has decided that she needs more permanency in her life (she is single and lives in a Manhattan rental), and that she wants to live in her own building, which she received in a divorce several years ago.  Of course she wants my garden apartment, so when my lease is up in February I will have to move.

I wasn’t too happy with this news, but the truth is, while living in a 19th century brownstone has its charms, I really wouldn’t mind having a dishwasher, a garbage disposal, a washing machine, and maybe even a doorman.  I also wouldn’t mind having a view.  I always thought these things were out of my reach, but after looking around at apartments today, I was really surprised — astonished, really, by how many nice apartments are on the market in New York, and how much prices have come down in the last year or two. I saw some two-bedroom apartments in luxury buildings that I could actually afford!

In New York, landlords generally expect a prospective tenant to have a yearly income of 40x the monthly rent for an apartment.  For example, if an apartment is $2000 per month, then a tenant would be expected to earn $80,000 per year, or 40x the monthly rent. Between M. and I, we earn about $125,000 per year, so can afford about $3,100 per month.  3 years ago, this wouldn’t have even gotten us into a studio apartment in a luxury building, but we saw two bedrooms today for $3,300.

I also found that some landlords are bending the usual 40x rule to be 35x or even 30x.  And the landlord of one luxury building we visited doesn’t even check income — if you have a credit score of above 750, you can take any apartment you want.  This is good for me because I have business income outside of my salary, which most landlords wouldn’t include in their 40x equation.

So all in all, this is a very good time to get an apartment in New York City, at least if you have good credit.  There is a ton of stuff out there, and prices are cheaper than they’ve been in years.

Feeling Crappy

It’s Thanksgiving weekend and I have come down with a nasty cold.  M. caught it last week from a co-worker, and I caught it from him 3 or 4 days later.  I can’t remember the last time I’ve been really, really sick, but this has knocked me flat on my back.  I called in sick to my job both Tuesday and Wednesday, and unfortunately haven’t been a very good Thanksgiving house guest here at my parents, spending most of my time in my room lying down.

There is an advantageous  side to being sick though.  I’ve been forced out of my routine, and have stopped filling my time with all of the clutter that usually fills up my day.  When you’re sick you have time to think. A lot of my thoughts aren’t good ones.  I have been slipping this year, on my weight, on my debt payment plans, on my goals in general.  Time doesn’t stand still, and I am not getting to where I want to be. I haven’t been keeping to the right path.

I’ve noticed in the past that when i get sick, I get motivated.  Some of my best weight loss and health “clean-ups” have come in the weeks after I’ve recoved from a bad cold or the flu.  Getting sick forces me to stop, to drop my daily habits, to get out of my comfort zone, and to think about what I want, to realize how precious good health and the time we have in our lives really is. It goes by quickly.

Fall is coming to an end in Brooklyn.  We had a windstorm last night, and the leaves were all blown off of the large magnolia tree in my back yard: this morning they are a sodden mess on the floor of my garden.  We have not had a frost yet, so the impatiens are still blooming and there are plenty of green plants, but soon they too will lifeless.  I’m always amazed how Fall extends well into November and even December in Brooklyn, when even 2o miles away, in Westchester,  the leaves have been down for weeks now and the plants killed in frost back in October.  The temperature of the ocean and bay are still in the mid fifties, which keeps things fairly balmy here until Thanksgiving most years.

I see  that it has been three weeks since I’ve posted.  Ever since I wiped out Midlife Beginnings accidentally a couple months ago, when upgrading to a new version of Wordpress, I have been a bit ambivalent about this blog.  I mean, I put a lot of myself, a lot of work into it for a couple years, and then managed to kill all of that of history with one errant mouse click.  But I am not going to give up on it.  Blogging has helped me to keep myself in line with my goals, and has been an interesting way to meet people (or their online selves) and hear new opinions. I miss that.

Speaking of keeping myself in line with my goals, one of the things that I’ve been lax on lately is exercise.  I’ve worked late a few too many nights and missed a few too many workouts.  I got on the scale yesterday and see that I am up to 250 lbs again.  I am a pretty heavy-boned guy — size 13 feet and a 46 inch chest — so I look ok  at 220 lbs, and even 230 lbs.  But 250 lbs has always been the weight that rings alarm bells and sends me back on a diet, so this will be no exception.

It doesn’t help that I’m going around everywhere on my Vespa these days.  One of the reasons you see fewer overweight people in New York City than other places is that people walk and take the subway everywhere.  It’s normal to walk a couple miles per day here, and a lot of that is up and down staircases.  Myself, I’ve always had to walk a mile each way to the express subway, and usually walk about 4 or 5 miles over the course of an average day. Not since I bought the Vespa though, and it is beginning to show.  Time to start dieting and leave the Vespa in the parking garage.

I’ll spend the afternoon throwing certain types of food out (all the butter, starchy things, junk food), and writing up a meal plan and grocery list for the next week that is heavy on lean proteins and vegetables.

Selling Laptops on eBay

I have an old Toshiba Qosmio laptop that I bought about 5 years ago.  Sometime last Winter the screen started fading out, first the upper left corner, and eventually the whole thing.  By Spring I had bought a new computer and retired the Qosmio.  Since then it’s been sitting in the basement for no good reason, except that I paid a lot of money for it.  It doesn’t work and never will again.

Today I was planning to put it out on the sidewalk, but for some reason I decided to check eBay and see if a broken Qosmio laptop might sell for parts.  Surprise! There is a real market for defunct laptops, and some broken Qosmios have been going for $200+.   Not bad at all; I could use an extra couple hundred dollars.  ]

There are certain laptops that seem to be in even more demand for parts than my Qosmio.  HP laptops and MacBooks do particularly well.

I often see laptops and other computer equipment being sold dirt cheap at stoop sales, or even being left on the sidewalk.  I never thought it would be worth anything.  Hmm, I may be on the verge of a new business opportunity…..

A Day Off

I’m taking a day off from work, and am catching up on my emails and internet browsing.  I’ve got an inbox full of emails for different websites, products and blogs that I’ve been meaning to read and follow up on, so today is my chance to catch up.

Long-time readers know that I became deeply dissatisfied with my job a couple years ago. I work for one of the major Wall Street banks as a business analyst.  Most people outside Wall Street didn’t hear much about banking problems until last Fall, but for those of us in the industry the writing was on the wall by late 2006, and the layoffs and stress began around the Summer of 2007.  By the beginning of 2008, my job was an absolute misery of increased demands and diminished resources, with rats jumping from the sinking ship all around me.

I was actively planning to quit my job no later than February 2009, to work full time on my internet business, and was even planing to volunteer to be laid off.  Then last Fall the shit hit the fan: banks all around me started collapsing, and friends and acquaintances throughout the city were losing their jobs with no notice and no severance.  Scary days.  Mine was one of two investment banks to survive. I decided to put my nose to the grindstone and hold on for another year before leaving.

Well, that year is up, and now other events conspire to keep me at my job.  First of all, the lease for my apartment will be up in February, and my landlord is making noise about moving into my apartment.  I don’t blame her: I have two floors of a brownstone and the back yard. Times are tight, and I pay a lot less than what she pays for her apartment.   But after 22 years, this is inconvenient timing, as to get an apartment in New York, you really need to have a job.

Also, things are picking up at work and I stand a good chance of being promoted.  Currently I earn just under six figures, and am at that cusp where a promotion would bring significantly more money.  The Investment Banking world is not where I want to be, but I have cultivated a special skill over the past few years that not many people have, and I could save a lot of money if the promotion goes through.

On the other hand, there are opportunities that I would pass up if I stay at this job.  My internet business is doing very well, and it is where my passion is.  I have been making good money at it lately and, given the preferred tax treatment for small business owners over salaried employees, I might even be able to make more from the business than from my banking job after a promotion.

I have also learned over the years how to trade securities.  One of the great frustrations of my job is that, because of my insider role, I have to be pre-approved to buy or sell stocks, and if I take a position I have to hold onto it for three months.  Three months is an eternity in this market, and goes against my philosophy of trading rather than investing.

So I’m faced with a decision: do I play it cautious for yet another couple years?  Do I keep a job I don’t like for a while longer instead of taking some risks and doing what I want to do?

Well, for a day anyway, I get to do what I want to do.  And to take a well-deserved break. I’ll deal with business for a couple more hours, and then it’s time to exercise and  enjoy the rest of the day.

btw I came across a thought-provoking  blog this morning called bripblap.  Written by a verbose middle-aged guy who writes frankly and directly, who lost 100 lbs over the past five years, and who is working toward financial freedom (and further along the path than I am!), I found a lot to inspire me there.  If I can ever extract myself from my 60-80 hour per week job, I hope to write a blog like his.

A New Look

Ever since vaporizing three years of posts a couple months ago when upgrading to Wordpress 2.8, I’ve been planning to change the look of my blog.  I liked the last theme, but i tneeded some work to really make look good and I just don’t have the time to do it.

Dawn over at Frugal for Life recommended eblogtemplates.com, which has some great themes. My favorite is the Lightbreaker Template, which is what I I am now using.

I will be  doing some customization (and getting rid of most of the advertisments — which came with the theme!) over the next day or so as I try to figure out how this theme works.  Hopefully I won’t delete my posts this time ; -)

Catching Up on Finances

Another dreary, rainy day here in Brooklyn.  I have taken advantage of the weather by staying in and catching up on my finances.  I don’t know about other people, but I seem to spend an inordinate amount of time at the computer tracking my finances.  I use Quicken 2007, and track just about everything I spend.  it takes 1-2 hours each week to enter all my receipts, and then another half hour or so to pay all my bills.  That adds up to about eight hours per month, or 96 hours per year.  It’s depressing to think about it that way.  Then there are days like today where I spend several hours going through and filing the stack of papers, receipts and bills that I’ve stuffed into the middle drawer of my desk, and it starts to feel like a second job.

But the good side of it is that now I can click a button in Quicken and see exactly where my money has gone over the past six months.  And at the beginning of next year I’ll be able to print out a few reports and have everything ready that I need to pay my taxes.  There are pros and cons to everything.

I’ve been doing well financially for the past several months.  My book business is thriving.  I had another great find last weekend — a trove of architecture books, and the person I got them from will be selling more soon. And I’ve been relatively frugal, which is beginning to pay off.  In two weeks I will pay off my 401k account loan, which will free up another $460 per month to pay off other things.

A Winter Meal

It’s the middle of October in NYC, but it sure doesn’t feel like it.  It’s been in the low 40’s for the past three days, with a cold, raw Northeast wind.  Winter doesn’t usually start here until after Thanksgiving, but we’re getting an early dose.

I took advantage of a couple rain-free hours this morning to buy the ingredients for a pot roast, the perfect meal for a day like today.  Every once in a while I get some time to watch TV in the evening, and this week I happened across the Barefoot Contessa, who was doing a show on Pot Roast with baked potatoes.  I have always liked her elegant but simple recipes, and the pot roast sounded like a perfect dish for the weekend, so I wrote out the ingredients and put everything together this morning.  The great thing about a pot roast is that you do all the work at the beginning and then just let it sit in the slow cooker for a few hours, filling the apartment with a mouthwatering smell.

The best thing is, I’ll have leftovers for about three more meals.

Anyway, click here for the recipe — it’s delicious.

When It Rains It Pours

About a month ago I wrote a post lamenting how hard it has become to find inventory for my Amazon book sales.  Well, about two weeks ago I was at a dinner where the person next to me knew someone who had a friend who was cleaning out her apartment and was complaining about all the books she had to get rid of.  My ears perked up immediately and by the end of the conversation I had the woman’s phone number.  I called the next morning, made an appointment to stop by in the afternoon, and found someone who was cleaning out her office of about five hundred recently published books about business and finance, almost all of them best sellers that go for over $10.  I’ve been listing, packing and shipping pretty much constantly ever since.  No complaints here though — the money is very much needed.  At this point I’ve sold three quarters of the books, and will be getting a nice big check from Amazon in a week or so.  I’ve had some great finds before, but this was by far the best one so far.

And it shows me that I need to change my tactics. I used to find most of my inventory in thrifts stores, but there are a lot of people who visit NYC thrift stores every day looking for used books that they can sell online, and those stores are pretty much stripped bare.  I’ve had a couple good finds in addition to last month’s by word-of-mouth, which is making me realize that, like any other business, networking is very important.

I’m glad that I’ve sold most of the books and plan to take a bit of a break from online selling.  I have had a lot on my mind to blog about lately, and am looking forward to spending some time writing.

For now I’m going to take a break from everything though.  It’s Open House New York weekend.  All kinds of places that are usually closed to the public open their doors.  On my agenda are the Grand Lodge of the Freemasons on Sixth Avenue, and the Newton Creek Sewage Treatment Center.   Open House New York happens both today and tomorrow, and there are hundreds of fascinating things to see.

Vacation Over

Things have been dark at Midlife Beginnings for three weeks now.  I’ve been out of town and off the grid.  Well, not quite off the grid, but off the Internet, that’s for sure.  My partner M. and I took a nice long vacation in rural New Brunswick Canada, of all places.  My parents have a place on the Bay of Fundy, just over the border from Maine (and not far from the rocky shoreline in the picture to the left of this paragraph), so we spent a few days with them, and then camped in the Fundy Provincial Park.  I had thought that I would do some blogging, but after trying a few times to hook my laptop up to the internet without success, I decided an Internet vacation would be a good thing, and the laptop sat in the trunk of the car.  I didn’t even think about any entrepreneurial opportunities.  I really needed the break.

We got back last Sunday, but work has been the usual whirlwind that it is after a vacation, and it’s only now that I’m getting a chance to catch up on my personal life here in Brooklyn.

I’m also catching up on my finances, and the news is not good.  I put my book-selling business on vacation for almost a month.  And even though we camped / stayed with relatives, our vacation cost a LOT more than I expected it to.  Three weeks on the road is expensive no matter how frugal you try to be.

The cost of my vacation, along with the Vespa I bought in July, has caused my debt to rise above $30,000 again.  This is only half of what it was at the peak a couple years ago, but is almost $10k more than it was in July.  Not the direction I want to be going in.  Two steps forward and one step back, as they say, but for the first time in a while I’m feeling the pressure of my debts again.

M. came back home a week before I did, and is now in Brazil.  He doesn’t make much money, but damn does he ever get good benefits: 8 weeks vacation per year.  What I would give for that!  Long-time readers of my blog (before I managed to delete a couple years history) will remember that the last time I wrote about our relationship things were not going well at all.  Well, he’s done a lot to make up for the money issues he caused between us last Winter, and I’m happy to say that our relationship is one area of my life that has improved immensely over the past year.

But I am not happy wtih the direction of my debt over the past three months.  It is time to re-double my spending discipline.  I’ve missed blogging and have looked forward to getting back into the habit.  This blog did a lot to help me confront my debt and keep myself honest. I guess now I have a reason to put some focus back on it again.

Summer Vacation

After a Summer of working hard, I’m finally taking my annual Summer vacation. It feels great to kick back in my garden and just watch the breeze stirring the trees, silhouetted against a bright blue sky. It’s been unusually chilly in Brooklyn for the past few days, a welcome treat in August.

In fact, I haven’t been able to bring myself to sit in front of the computer for four days now, not even to write a post on my blog.  My break from all things electronic has felt good, but the creative urge is beginning to stir again.  That’s the way it always works for me — I take a vacaiton and after 3-4 days I have begun to decompress.  Then I get some good, creative days where I get a lot done.  But the next thing I know I’m back at my day job and I don’t get time to execute my ideas.

I had been thinking about quitting my job and living on my income from book sales.  I’ve written in the past (before Wordpress did a number on my blog) about how I find and sell books online in my spare time.  There was good money in this a couple years ago.  Even last year I’d find several hundred dollars worth of books per weekend with not much effort.

Since the stock market melted down last Fall though and layoffs hit New Yor City, things have been different.  Books still sell online, as well as they ever did, but it is much harder to find inventory than it used to be.  Yesterday I decided to head into Manhattan and hit the thrift stores. I started around 10am, and hit every single thrift I know of south of 96th Street.  I came home with a grand total of 12 books, worth about $90.  In the past I would have found at least $500 worth of inventory on the same trip.  This means I earned about$8 per hour of work, before the government takes their taxes and Amazon takes their fees.  All Summer it has been like this.  I don’t know if it is because the thrifts are selling online now, or if it is because the number of people scouting has increased, but it is getting really tough out there.

From what I see, quite a few unemplolyed professionals have been trying to make some money at selling books online, and they are beginning to look ragged and hungry. Many people have enough saved up to get by for a few months, but after unemployment and savings run out people get desperate.  And there are a lot of desperate people out there, with more and more joining their ranks each day.  It makes sense that I’m seeing this now, about a year after the layoffs really began in earnest.  There are not many layoffs now, but there are also not many companies hiring, so I expect things to get worse over the next few months.  This makes me thankful I have a day job.   I feel for the people I see in the thrifts who have spent money to start an online book selling business, buying expensive book scanners and listing software.  You can still make beer money scouting for books in Manhattan but unlike last year, you will not find enough books to make a living, not even a very frugal living.

This tells me that I am going to need to figure out how to create another stream of income.  I have a cultivated  connections that keep my book business going, but if something were to happen to them, it would not be good.  As is usual, I’ll have all kinds of ideas over the next several days, and may even begin executing on a couple of them.  But then my vacation will be over and I’ll be back at my banking job, and won’t have time to bring any of them to fruition.

There has been one thing that has been bothering me tremendously this Summer.  And that is the price of renting a car.  I live in Brooklyn, and owning a car here is incredibly expensive.  Between maintenance (city streets are rough on a car), insurance (easily $2500 a year, even if you have an excellent driving record) and parking (if you don’t spend $300 a month for a parking space you’ll spend a nice chunk of change on parking tickets), a car can really drain the budget.

So I choose to take mass transit most of the time, occasionally renting a car for a long weekend. Generally I spent $40-60 per day to rent a car, and renting one for a weekend each month has always cost far less than owning a car would.

Something has happened this year though; car rental costs have gone through the roof!  Avis in Stamford has been charging $120 per weekend day.  Add in tax, insurance and other fees, and two weekends at this price cost almost as much as owning a car.

Now I love Brooklyn, but I do like my  occasional weekend escape in the country in the Summer,  so these car rental prices have really bothered me.  In fact, since I am trying to save money, I have only rented a car once this Summer.   But I don’t like to be confined here, so over the past several weeks I have really given some thought to buying a car.  But then I think about the hassles, the parking, the cost to insure, and I back away from the idea.

A couple weeks ago I rode on the back of a friend’s motorcycle.  I’ve never owned a motorcycle, and in fact,  never cared much for them after a couple different friends back in high school were badly injured in motorcycle accidents.  But riding out in the open air was really nice.  And so was paying about $8 for enough gas to go 200 miles.  So I began to consider this, and to do some research.  A motorcycle isn’t quite me, but then I started to think about the Vespa motor scooters that I see more and more often in Brooklyn.  When I started to pay attention to easily people are able to park them, and how easy it is to maneuver around and through city traffic I really became interested.  When I read accounts of people driving them to the Hamptons, New England and even across the United States, I became totally enamored of the idea.

So two weeks ago I became the owner of a sky blue 250 GTS Vespa.  It was expensive, but it drives beautifully.  I can park it just about anywhere.  I took it into Manhattan last Saturday and hit about a dozen thrift stores, something that I could never have done foot or via mass transit.   Yesterday I convinced M. to get on the back and we drove out to Jones Beach in Long Island, about 30 miles away.  This morning I even commuted to work on it!

My monthly payment, insurance and gas will add up to about $270, which is half of what a compact car would cost me here in Brooklyn.  And the Vespa is so much more practical.  Rather than cursing the traffic, I am actually having fun driving around.  Enough fun to explain why I haven’t posted in a couple weeks……tonight I brought my laptop with me to a park by New York Harbor where there is internet access, and where I am writing this post. btw I’m going on vacation next week, so expect the posting frequency to increase.

I spent money that I hadn’t planned to spend, but I don’t regret it in the least.  Maybe this is a sign of a midlife crisis, but I sure am enjoying that Vespa! I cannot figure out why I let 20 years go by in this city without owning one before.

The weather has warmed up over the past week, and it finally feels like Summer here in New York City. I walked out into the heat of Midtown Manhattan after work around 5pm a couple days ago, and made the spontaneous decision that it was time to finally go out to the ocean for the Summer’s first swim. Being that I’m in full-scale frugal mode,  renting a car was out, so I called up M, and said “let’s take the subway out to the beach for a swim.”

Many people who don’t live in New York City don’t realize that the ocean is reachable by subway.  Far Rockaway in Queens actually has  surf and sand dunes — there are places out toward Fort Tilden at the western end of Far Rockaway where you would think you were on Cape Cod. The wind blows in from the ocean over the dune grass and there are no buildings in sight.

Brighton Beach, Brooklyn. Image from Lornagrl via Flickr

But it’s an hour and a half on the A train from Manhattan to Far Rockaway, and then a long subway ride home to Brooklyn, so M. suggested that we head out to Brighton Beach, in Brooklyn.  Great idea!  Brighton Beach is a mostly Russian neighborhood on the southern edge of Brooklyn, just one neighborhood over from Coney Island.  I don’t much care for the raucousness of Coney Island, but Brighton Beach is the perfect place to unwind after a long day of work.

We took the N train, out over Manhattan Bridge.  I watched the evening sun glisten on New York Harbor and started craving a good long swim.  The train went back underground where it stayed for the next half hour or so, until the subway turned into an elevated train and we came up above the ground somewhere in Bensonhurst.

It’s funny how I can always tell when I’m near the ocean, even when I am in Brooklyn.  The sky became brighter and the light became clearer.  The sun was still strong at 6pm, and the white stucco backs of the tenaments of Brooklyn took on a tone almost like those brilliant white buildings I have seen pictures of on Greek Islands in the Aegean. After another 20 minutes, we came around a corner, and the train finally pulled into the Stillwell Avenue station in Coney Island.

Arriving in Coney Island. Image from Lornagrl via Flickr

It’s been a while since I went to Coney Island.  The train station has been redone and is impressive — about 4 different subway lines terminate there and the station is built to accommodate masses of people.

Stillwell Avenue Station, Coney Island, Brooklyn. Image from kodama_atpl via Flickr

As I said earlier, Coney Island isn’t my favorite place.  It’s noisy, it’s tacky, the food is expensive and not very good. We did get some fried clams at Nathan’s Hot Dogs, then walked past all the freak shows and noisy rides, out to the Boardwalk, and onward to Brighton Beach.

Brighton Beach is a mostly Russian neighborhood. They call it Odessa by the Sea. It is definitely not bucolic like Far Rockaway.  Crowded tenaments back right up onto the Boardwalk, and elevated trains thunder by, just a block or two away from the sand.  The Boardwalk is crowded with Russians promenading and taking in the sea air.  They really do promenade, just like people do in Europe. The place has a very old world feeling.  You hear Russian all around, with the occasional thick, nasally Brooklyn accent thrown in for good measure, just to remind you of where you are.

Brighton Beach Boardwalk. Image from WallyG via Flickr

M. and I stopped at a Russian deli and bought some borscht, some sausages, cabbage salad, dark peasant bread and a couple Russian beers.  As the sun was getting low, we went for our swim before we ate (luckily we both had swimsuits with us to use at the gym), and I paddled around until it was almost dark.  The water was a bit chilly but refreshing, and full of Russians.  Those Russians do love to swim.  Afterward we wrapped towels around ourselves and slid back into our regular clothes right there on the beach, found ourselves a bench and ate our dinner.

Tatias on the Brighton Beach Boardwalk. Image from WallyG via Flickr

It was getting late by the time we finished, but it was enchanting on the boardwalk looking out at the water, and I felt like having one more beer, so we stopped at Tatias, a Russian restaurant on the boardwalk, staffed by friendly waiters, and sipped our way through several more mugs of an excellent Russian beer.  Tatias has an extensive menu of Russian and Continental food.  Prices are steep though; you could easily spend $100 each for dinner.  The setting is special — not fancy, but very genuine somehow, very Brooklyn — but as we did not eat there I can’t say whether the food is worth the price.  It is a good place to sip a beer and watch the world go by.  Our beers were about $5 each.

All in all, it was an excellent way to spend a New York evening.  Total price for us, $16 for dinner and beers at a Russian deli, and then another $20 plus a $5 tip for beers at Tatias.

Renewal

Losing something can free you from the past.

After thinking about it for a while, I’ve decided that the wipe-out of my blog might not be such a bad thing.  I’ve written some good posts here, but I’ve also written some very personal posts, personal enough that I always worried about certain people reading them, which led to me feeling that this blog was sort of a secret life.  I’ve wanted for a while to make Midlife Beginnings less personal, and more helpful to those who visit, and at the same time to try to grow my readership.

Of course I would always put the effort required for changing and growing my blog off to the indeterminate future, figuring that when I left my day job I would have more energy for blogging and other things.   Now I really don’t have that excuse.  My old bog is gone — scattered — vaporized.  I will take some of my better posts (I do have back-ups) and repost them over the next few weeks.  I will also continue to post anonymously, and keep the personal tone that I enjoy.  But I will also try to widen my subject matter with an eye toward making what I post more useful and interesting for more people.

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